Do Yourself A Favour, Just Walk Away


I don’t usually fond of writing personal stuff on the internet. However, after being told (last week) on what some people thought of me (results of the backstabber who can’t stop all the drama YET). It kinds of struck me in putting em into words. And I also felt like I have finally come to the point when I can really talk about it without feeling miserable.

P.S if this is going to offend you or something, DON’T READ, and if you think I shouldn’t share anything like this, you have a bigger issue than me.

Backstabbing one,
by making up stories,
playing the role of victim when you’re (obviously) not, yes, it does make you look better than other.
Yes, it does successfully tears down one’s reputation. Yes, you get to gain ‘some’ friends.

But I’ve come to realise those friends are just not worth to be kept and they don’t worth any shed of my tears.
Those who believe, I don’t blame, as most are not even close to me nor know me, but just simply love to be judgemental by listening to gossips so what’s the point of caring their thoughts tho.

“Rumours are carried by haters, spread by fools, and accepted by idiots”

And I also come to realise,
I’m glad that I do not give a damn by giving any explanation.
You might question, are you going to let people hate you for what you’re not?
But, it’s alright,
those who know me well,
don’t need my explanation,
and those who chose to believe, they don’t need your explanation as they already made their conclusion.

P.S I’m truly thankful for those who stay with me throughout my darkest period of time.
I couldn’t imagine how bad shape i will be in, if it is not my love ones who constantly give me positive vibes.

Things I’ve Learnt
  • If they talk about others poorly with you but continue to smile in their face it’s likely they are doing the same to you.


  • Don’t afraid of losing friends

If someone can persuade someone to no longer be your friend, they were never really with you from the beginning. Real friends don’t do such thing. So, walk away. You don’t want to keep around someone who isn’t loyal to you in the first place.

  • Don’t care too much

It’s none of your business why someone thinks something of you. Don’t get angry or upset as the worst thing you can do to your body is to stab it with your own negative emotions.

Yeah I used to care A LOT, not that i say i don’t anymore, but I’m learning not to. As long as what you do is right, then go ahead, its your life!

“Every minute you spend frowning is 60 seconds of happiness lost”
  • There’s no point of confronting the backstabber

At first i do think there’s a need to confront and tell her how bad i felt but it won’t change anything.
Instead you might get yourself into A LOT MORE DRAMAS.
One might twist the entire story and makes you look even worse later so simply just walk away when you sense anything wrong.

Your instinct is usually right. If you need to question the vibe, you probably knew that those aren’t good vibes.
  • You don’t need to change to please the other

I used to think and be guilty over things she accused me for. I always think am I not good enough for her (sounds so cheesy). But true, when you cherish a friendship so much, you will try to do whatever, change whatever (which is seriously the most stupid thing I ever did) to please her. But real friends will never say you’re not good enough for them etc.

  • Time is the key

Yes time is the key to everything!
I never thought I could get over that matter but I did, I got over it. You will get over it too, anything you’re upset right now, you will laugh about it later. I know you don’t feel like you can get over it now but you will. Yes, the scar might left a mark but it doesn’t affect me anymore.

  • Focus on better stuff

You do you, and focus on the important things such as goals you want to achieve. Don’t waste time on nonsense, it won’t bring you any benefit. Instead, it drains all your energy.

That’s all for today. Sending all those positive vibes to you!

Jewellery Haul – Lovisa


I’ve got admit I’m not a big fan of jewellery before, even though I have my ears pierced since I was in primary school. And I think the main reason is it is always SO difficult to find pieces which catch my eye. However, lately I’ve been seeing many of brands started to launch their minimal jewelry line, which I’m extremely excited about!

Last Friday, I went to Queensbay after work to purchase Sony A6000 (Yeah! I AM SO EXCITED as I’ve been eyeing it for the longest time), but the camera is not charged and I couldn’t test out, so I decided to shop around. And walaaa, it turns out to be today’s jewellery haul.

It’s not a massive haul as I just got 5 pieces. But this is my first time purchasing so many pieces of jewellery in a single shot. P.S one of the main reason I got so many is Lovisa is having sale, which you can get 5 pieces (the sale selection) for RM60 only! Without further ado, let’s check out what I’ve got.


Rose Gold Gem Embellished Geometric Drop Earrings

This is the only rose gold item I got and I’m absolutely loving it. I love the geometric shape which features the gem embellishments, making it very sophisticated and elegant. I personally think this pair will complement any evening dress.


Gold Long Hoop Earrings

And here comes the hoops, I do not know why but I’m literally obsessed with them! I love these long earrings which feature a bigger hoops on the end, and the dainty ones on your ear lobes. The design is really minimal and it fits any of your outfit, from casual everyday look to fancy evening date.


Gold Double Hoops Drop Earrings

This is my ultimate favourite pair in this haul. I love how they incorporated one bigger hoop and one smaller hoop. And the thickness of the hoops just make this statement pair stands out even more. If you want something minimal and a bit edgy to jazz up your look, pick these!


Silver Long Chain Double Hoops Earrings

This is pretty similar as the gold ones, but the gold ones are more sophisticated. And the differences are these long earrings have the chain detailing and slightly slender hoops. Perfect for spicing up your everyday outfit.

Silver Double Hoops Stud Earrings

You must be thinking ain’t these similar with the gold ones? But nope, if you see the details, this is a pair of stud earrings. And I totally love the pin inspired shape that connects the big and small hoops together. It’s very unique and of course minimal, that’s why I got them.

That’s all for my mini jewellery haul, hope you enjoy em. If you’re interested in reading more haul’s blogpost, do let me know in the comment section.

And here’s Lovisa’s website -> here incase you’re interested.

Jewellery is like the perfect spice, it always complements what’s already there

Yellow Gingham Off-Shoulder Cropped Top for Summer


If you’ve been following me on Instagram (@wendywonderstruck) or even my blog, you probably know that I have a huge crush on yellow hue this year! Anything in yellow just signs me up instantly. And of course, that’s one of the reasons I got my hands on this beaut. 

I’ve been eyeing this top for a long while but I don’t feel like investing so much money on a trendy piece. And I’m SO glad when Zara puts this into the sale section!



This top is really the ULTIMATE SUMMER STAPLE, it has all the trendy styles in it. First, it is crafted with gingham. This season, no wardrobe is fully stocked without a touch of gingham. Regardless it is a top, a bottom or even a bikini! Second, it features a beautiful mustard yellow that resembles Summer so perfectly! Trust me, it complements the skin tone so well. I used to afraid of wearing this shade as I thought that my skin tone will end up looking very yellow. But, nope, in fact it makes your skin glow. Third, it features an enticing off-the-shoulder silhouette! Nothing is more perfect than showing off a glimpse of your sexy shoulder during this scorching hot weather. One thing which make me fall head over heels is the cropped silhouette that flashes your belly! I just think crop cut is very cute. Lastly, this beaut is finished off with a bow accent that makes this top anything but boring. 


For bottom, I wear my favourite mid-rise cropped raw hem skinnies from H&M. I got to be honest, I don’t really like em at first as the length is not really flattering and it kinds of make me look shorter. But after I cropped it and frayed the hem, I love it! And after several washes, the shade turns out to be the perfect denim blue. FYI they are super cheap tho compared to the rest of my jeans collection (which includes of Topshop, Zara and Levis). 

To elongate my legs and add more summery vibe, I wore my new favourite, black espadrilles wedges from H&M. I’ve been really obsessed with these as they are REALLY REALLY comfy. They don’t hurt your feet a single bit even though they are pretty high. Aside from these, they really elongate your figure and make your proportion better. 

For accessories, I wore my new silver hoop earrings which given by my mom, my everyday watch, and carried my nude bucket bag from Hieleven. 


Top: Zara (grab it before sale ends) ; Bottom: H&M (here, here) ; Bag:  Hieleven ; Shoes: H&M (similar here)

Tips: If you’ve broad shoulders but still want to wear off-shoulder silhouette, try not to tie up your hair as it will draw attentions to them. Instead, leave your hair down, so that they cover some skin. But, if you want to avoid off-shoulder, you can give cold shoulder a try! Try to pick those which features halter neckline, it will flatter your body type even more. 


Like others, we can’t choose the way we die, but we can choose the way we live tonight.

Chic Road Trip Outfit


Summer has officially unpacked its luggage, which means most of you might heading for your long awaited summer road trip! And when comes to road trip, regardless you’re traveling for long or short distances, of course you want to be comfortable, but still want to look oh-so chic the minute you step out from the car. Hence, if you need outfit inspiration, seek no further than this blogpost.

P.S I’m just not that type of girl who will wear pj’s or workout clothes, those are not cute travel outfits.


For this look, I’ve chosen a black graphic tee. First, you can never go wrong with black! Not only they creates an illusion of you having a slender figure, they also hide the occasional stain from road trip snacks (A BIG YESSS)! Not to forget, by choosing a graphic tee over a basic black tee, it adds a splash of interest to your look.

For bottom, I wore my trusty black distressed skinnies from Topshop. Trust me, they are so comfy and feel like leggings (maybe they are jeggings? idk) you won’t feel like it is super tight nor uncomfortable at all. I can even cross my legs and read my book or blog on my laptop. I guess by describing it in this way, you can imagine how comfy they are.

Depending on the time of year you’re traveling but I always layer my outfit with a denim jacket. Not only it makes your outfit looks put together, more stylish, but also keeps you warm when it gets chilly. You can easily remove the layer when you reach your destination.

For hair, I will always pull my hair into a top knot. There is no way to keep my hair full of life after the hours in a car. If you don’t want your hair to look greasy, top knot is the answer!

To finish off this road trip look, I wore Adidas, slip on sneakers, so I can easily slip them out when I’m inside the car. Besides, they are super soft and comfy to travel in. Lastly, I carried a mini crossbody which is enough to stuff in some bucks, cards, and my lipstick. I’m not fond towards carrying a huge bag while traveling. But options are yours, of course!





Top: Forever21 | Bottoms: Topshop’s Jamie | Bag: Zara | Shoes: Adidas Slip Ons


What you think you can, what you think you can’t, you’re right.

June Favourites 2017


In a blink of an eye, we’re cruising into July ALREADY! Seriously, where have the six months gone ?! Ever since I went to college, I felt like every year passes by so fast! It kinds of freak me out, whenever I think of there are so many goals I want to achieve, so many things I wanted to do yet the time is so limited!

Okay, that’s all for the rambling part, without further ado, let’s jump straight to my June favourites!

First, let’s kick start with my music favourites.

This month, I’ve been listening a lot to Lauv, who is a New York singer I just discovered this month. And my favourite song of him is ‘Breathe’. It’s a pretty emotional song. Hence, if you’re looking for some sad late night song, give it a try!

My second favourite of him will be ‘Reforget’.

Third favourite will be ‘The Other’.

If sad songs ain’t your jam. Lauv’s latest single, ‘The Other’ will satisfy your ears! It’s more a happy vibe song compared to his usual style.

This month, I’ve been listening to EDM genre A LOT. ‘Tired’ is one of my favourite which I can hit the replay button for whole day.

And of course, how can I not include both my favourite singers in this June Fav! This collaboration is seriously SO good!

If you’re looking for some classy and Michael Jackson’s vibe, Bruno Mars’s ‘Versace On The Floor’ is utterly perfect for you! My favourite part of this song would be the composition right before the bridge! Listen to it and you’ll know why!

I know it’s a little too late but I only started listening to The Weeknd recently. My favourite song of him is definitely ‘I Feel It Coming’. A song which my madre love it as well! PS another Michael Jackson’s vibe!

For those who are looking for summer vibe song which you can play on your road trip! ‘Waterfalls’ is the one!!

This month I only have one Kpop favourite and it is from Black Pink! I have to say, the queens have slayed it again! PS how can they be so pretty and badass! Girlcrush mode on!

For chill genre, I only have one favourite this month. Check out Shallou, ‘Truth’.

My last music favourite has to be Riverdale OST! Oh my gawd, you guys HAVE to watch the series and listen to their ost! It is so good, KJ APA’s vocal is so good. The same goes to Ashleigh Murray!

That’s all for my music favourites! This month I’ve three favourite Netflix series which I highly recommend!

First will be Riverdale! Initially, Cole Sprouse is the one that got me into this series but I do not regret! PS I remembered how I used to watch The Suite Life Of Zack and Cody on Disney Channel again and again and never get bored of it! And now he has grown up so much! Talking about hawtie, he is definitely one. And you have to check out his Instagram account, his photography skill is ANOTHER LEVEL!

Riverdale is a drama about a group of teens that’s based on the classic Archie comics. The series has a much darker tone than the comics, with events revolving around the murder of a local teen boy, an illicit affair between a 15-year-old student and an adult teacher, and competitive friendships. A dead body with a distorted face is shown at length after a drowning, various characters have secrets relating to the murder.

In conclusion, not a single episode is boring! So definitely watch it!


The second and third fav are Terrace House. One is filmed in Japan and another is in Hawaii. I know nothing about this series until my boss, Tommy recommended! It is a reality show which six young men and women, all strangers, move into a house and live together. What I love about these series is you get to observe how people interact with each other, how they solve problems when everyone has different personality, the culture and of course the fun part, a group of six Japanese commentators — a mix of comedians, actors, and other on-air personalities — check in periodically throughout the episode to discuss their feelings and crack jokes.


That’s all for today! I hope you enjoy my monthly favourites. If you do, please comment below, it would mean a lot to me. If you have any request, please do not hesitate to tell me!

Until next time! xoxo