Life Is Indeed Not A Wishing Granting Factory

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2.30 am, got a call from hospital…

Why life has to be so mean and challenging to you? You’ve been telling us why you have suffered so much when you were young. And why you still need to suffer when you are old. You said you don’t want to live like this. I don’t know how to answer you…

You make me question life. How can a person who did so many good deeds have to face all these kind of shit. I know we were born to face challenging life stages, to understand life does not full of high times only. Shit just happens.  Yet, I still question life cause I’m not perfect, I’m not a god.

I doubt myself, I want you to live long but I don’t want you to live while you’re not living. I know this is the last situation you would ever wanted, but I don’t know what to do.

After you being saved, I saw your eyelids are wet, I bet you cried. My heart aches so bad, it’s like it’s been torn apart. When I said you’re forever my darling nanny, you opened your teary eyes, yet nothing I can do. Holding your cold hand, seeing you with the ventilator for days, I don’t know what I should do. 💔

Quoting John Green

“Life is not a wish granting factory.”

Couldn’t fall back to sleep, emotions kept pouring on me, words kept flooding in.

If you are going through the same thing, just want to say you are not alone, hang on there! We will fight this fight!

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How to Find Your Personal Style

What is ‘personal style‘? And how to find your personal style? These are those fashion questions that get thrown around a lot as if finding “your style” is an end game!

But guess what, if you’re still seeking for your own personal style. YOU DON’T HAVE TO! You already have your own style! Okay, you might be thinking is this a click bait (lol)? So basically, this blogpost is not that typical kind of step by step guide, instead it is on how I view fashion, and how I find my style or perhaps I never did.

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Do Yourself A Favour, Just Walk Away

I don’t usually fond of writing personal stuff on the internet. However, after being told (last week) on what some people thought of me (results of the backstabber who can’t stop all the drama YET). It kinds of struck me in putting em into words. And I also felt like I have finally come to the point when I can really talk about it without feeling miserable.

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Kindness , It Doesn’t Cost A Damn Thing!

Kindness, it won’t cost a damn thing! Make sure you sprinkle kindness everywhere you go.
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Today’s topic is totally unrelated with fashion or travel. It’s just me wanting to put my thoughts on the incident which I can never get rid from my head into words.

So let’s wind back to the Saturday, 25th March 2017. After attending a charity dinner with my dad and sis, we decided to pull over our car and grab some light supper as we hardly ate during the dinner.

In the middle of our meal, an Indian man (approximately 40 years old) approached us and asked for money. Usually we won’t straight away give them money. Instead, we give them food or stuff they need. As we do not want to give them the perception of getting easy money just by begging. Besides, sometimes they ask you for money not because of meal but for the sake of cigarette or even worse, drugs (You might not agree with me as different people have different perspective)!

My dad then asked him why does he need the money. He said he need food, so my dad told him to order and he will pay. At first, he refused and just keep on asking for money but we insisted and eventually he agreed to order his meal. So here comes the interesting part, the lady boss came over and start yelling at him not to bother customer. I understand that he might always come over to your shop and bother you but do you really need to yell? Can’t you just speak nicely?

Always treat people the way you wanted to be treated.

And the worse thing the lady boss did is she gave him the food so reluctantly! This really pissed me off, and all she gave was just rice and soup (and it costs us RM5, with that value of money, we should have just brought him some better food). Besides, I remembered when he asked for a plastic bag, she yelled at him AGAIN, saying he was annoying! Tsk, tsk what the hell is this shit?! We have already said we will pay for him, so treat him like he is your customer not a beggar! Even a beggar does not deserve this kind of treatment. If I were you, I would have just offer him the food, yes even everyday doesn’t costs you a hella dollar!

That’s all for this post, I am seriously really upset why there is so many sick attitude in the society nowadays!

For more thought post, check here.

“Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day someone might do the same for you.” -Princess Diana